My brother is an alcoholic and I think probably a drug addiction. Growing up he smolked weed in our family home, my mum preferred his doing it at home then outside. He was 7 years older then me and I witnessed a lot of drug taking.
20 years on he's in his late 30s and has just gotten his partner pregnant. They planned for the baby but I think his partner is having regrets. Her daughter (from another man) told my sister that my brother drinks and argues with her mom and she kicked him out. My heard is broken for the child, and now he's bringing new life into the world.
Since I've heard he's having this baby I feel really really upset about his behaviour. I'm worried about drugs and alcohol in the home. He seems to go on benders and stay out all might. He seems unable to stop himself. Yesterday he attended my nieces confirmation and was well behaved but after dropping his girlfriend home about 9-10pm.he went out for an hour. He came home at 11am this morning. He also drink drives.
He took cocaine at my wedding and made a show of me during my speech and offered cocaine to friends of my husband. I stopped talking to him after that. There is story after story of him fucking up. He also looks dreadful.
How can I help him? My sister and I are finally using the alcaholic word and ive suggested that we have some kind of an intervention. I live in the UK and they are in Ireland but I'm there next month and we are talking about what to do. Can anyone give me any advise on how to deal with this.
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My brother is an alcoholic/drug addict
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ammature · 29/05/2016 14:23
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