My exP was arrested back in February and convicted with battery.
I was advised to take out a non-mol order and that not doing so and allowing to come back to the home at the end of his bail would trigger SS involvement so I did just that, was awarded the non-mol order and made a children's act application for our 3 year old.
ExP is now wanting full residency of our 3 year old based on my reactions to his abuse towards me and my eldest child over the past year.
I had a break down, was suffering awful depression which is now (by his own admission) resolved.
During the 6 weeks between my breakdown and his arrest there were 8 incidents of him unreasonably losing his temper/being verbally aggressive towards me and my eldest child over small things and I had to try to talk him down each time culminating in him shoving me and injuring me.
Based on his allegations against me (that I'm mentally unstable and incapable of looking after both children) I am now faced with a CAFCASS section 7 report.
Does he really stand a chance of getting full residence of our child rather than the every other weekend Saturday and Sunday I am offering? I have been child's main cater since birth and since February the sole career with regular weekend contact between ExP and child.
A friend has suggested offering 50/50 residence but this will mean child having to go into childcare. ExP works long and unpredictable hours, often going to work before 6am and not returning until after 7.
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Froginapan · 29/05/2016 13:59
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