I've lost interest in my dh and I feel sorry for him. He's always so nice and loving and I'm just so uninsterested... We used to have a lot of sex then he started making excuses such as tiredness etc but I saw he was looking at images of other women and porn etc, I talked to him nearly everyday about it wanting to have more excitement and doing things spur of the moment etc but after talking that much I've given up. I've really tried and now I just think why bother? I don't want to have to do all the work and get nothing back anymore. I know he likes porn with different race women and other different things so I'm thinking maybe that's his turn on and I'm not? I don't know whether to just tell him I'm Not feeling it anymore and cut our losses? I just don't want to hurt him. He has hurt me before by looking at adult sex sites and he knows I never got over it really. Sorry for babbling, hope it makes sense
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