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I've lost all interest?

(6 Posts)
Jointhejungle Sat 28-May-16 21:13:22

I've lost interest in my dh and I feel sorry for him. He's always so nice and loving and I'm just so uninsterested... We used to have a lot of sex then he started making excuses such as tiredness etc but I saw he was looking at images of other women and porn etc, I talked to him nearly everyday about it wanting to have more excitement and doing things spur of the moment etc but after talking that much I've given up. I've really tried and now I just think why bother? I don't want to have to do all the work and get nothing back anymore. I know he likes porn with different race women and other different things so I'm thinking maybe that's his turn on and I'm not? I don't know whether to just tell him I'm Not feeling it anymore and cut our losses? I just don't want to hurt him. He has hurt me before by looking at adult sex sites and he knows I never got over it really. Sorry for babbling, hope it makes sense

AnyFucker Sat 28-May-16 21:16:19

I am not surprised he has killed your relationship.

Don't feel guilty. Cut your losses and get out. There are men out there who prefer sex with a real, present woman.

Jointhejungle Sat 28-May-16 21:17:35

I feel he's just bored, it's been 6 years, do men get bored?

AnyFucker Sat 28-May-16 21:24:04

No. Not in general.

Tossers get bored and turn to porn.

MatildaTheCat Sat 28-May-16 22:18:48

Have I understood this correctly? You are worried about hurting him?

You have done nothing whatsoever wrong.

coco1810 Sat 28-May-16 23:25:20

He's being a wimp (and that's being polite) of he wanted to inject a spark into your sex life, he engages with you not looking at porn to get himself off. Get rid and move on.

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