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DH and I generally have a very easy going relationship, and rarely fall out. But we are going though a particular situation that I have finally plucked up the courage to discuss, I have one viewpoint and he has another. Result was predictable - he went off the deep end and stormed out. I'm feeling very calm about this - do I not care enough? Or because I suspected this is how he'd react? I had been losing sleep over this issue because I knew he wouldn't be able to talk about it rationally. I have the full backing of his parents and mine - they all know he doesn't deal well will conflict.
I'm not sure what I'm asking - how do I get him to talk through a tricky situation? Or is it significant that I'm not more angry that he's stormed out on me? I have an over riding desire to take the kids to my DP for a few days and let him stew but the DC would miss him dreadfully. The issue we have fallen out about affects the whole family, beyond us and the DC. I don't know if my pt of view is right, but he won't let us talk it thought to work it out.
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hereandnowtoday · 27/05/2016 22:17
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