Aftermath and what to do

[user1462882883]

Sunny you asked me what i expected to hear on this thread. you have all been super helpful.

I didn't like what one of you said about the child free living a lonely life. you do not need children to be happy and fulfilled.

My now ex girlfriend wants me to phone her later and she is whatsapping me asking to reconsider and that i would make an amazing father to our child. I feel so terrible.

I saw a counsellor to explore why i am against family life. She said the fact my father stuck around but never spoke to me much unless he had to, and this most likely was a damaging factor in my conditioning.

[springydaffs]

erm... Have I missed something here?

[TheNaze73]

For your own sanity, just leave it now. I get why you wouldn't want children, some people just don't.

[CrazyDuchess]

Just for the love of god man make a decision

YY

What more needs to be said on the matter - no one is going to change your mind...

[CrazyDuchess]

Just for the love of god man make a decision

YY

What more needs to be said on the matter - no one is going to change your mind...

[SunnySideYourGoingDown]

Just for the love of god man make a decision

YY

What more needs to be said on the matter - no one is going to change your mind...

[Herald]

Nooooooooooooo spend the night reading back your previous 1000+thread....

[cheesecadet]

Lets boycott the thread!

[AnyFucker]

Please everyone stop bumping the thread of this narcissistic twat, for the Love of God

[KittiesInsane]

User, I'm going to suggest (and this is no insult) that you explore whether you have Asperger's. You are writing in the style of someone with

very rigid thinking:
difficulty in conceiving (ha!) of a change to your current lifestyle
difficulty in imagining life with a child
finding it impossible to imagine that anyone could think differently...
a wish to quantify the exact risks and 'know' the future (all the '5%/95%' stuff, the 'would break down at 4 months' etc)
a tendency to repeat the same thing over and over

unusual social interaction for your age:
an unbending urge to make others accommodate you, not vice versa
very few long-term relationships, and fiercely over-invested in those
a somewhat formal and unusual writing style

and some hint of sensory problems:
you would 'be unable to cope' with baby poo

The massive overanalysis of your own thoughts sounds kind of familiar, too, though it's not exactly part of the spectrum.

Worth a thought?

Sorry, AnyFucker. Will bugger off now.