My husband and I have been having a tough time for a number of years. Firstly due to pressure of work which led to a breakdown for him. He basically checked out of our marriage for 2 years and didn't have headspace for anything except his job. I also work full time in a highly stressful job yet manage to balance it. Once I told him it was counselling or out we went and he was devastated with himself and how he had behaved. I've found it almost impossible to let him back in , fear of him doing it again I guess. Any how on Wed I saw really really graphic sexting messages between him and his old PA (who I also know and work with!) these went on for 48 hours somehow I didn't say anything for that long as the kids were around all the time when I did he was again devastated and said it got totally out of hand. Firstly I know he would t do anything with her for many reasons. But this is just wrong. I have remained weirdly calm again I think because I've distanced myself but I've asked him to move into the spare room to give me space. I'm all a bit lost anyone been here or have any advice?
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