My H want to leave me after 24 years. He says that he doesn't consider that he is leaving our children, but he is leaving ME. He doesn't love me anymore (did he ever, I ask?) He swears there is no OW and I can find no trace, but I think only time will tell. He wants us to work something out about the kids. I have really struggled this weekend - I have been really busy with the kids, taking them to friends houses, taking them for a walk, watching films, testing timetables - all the usual. He has barely been here - nothing dodgy, but barely here. It struck me that if he gets what he wants, there will be long empty weekends ahead for me. I am not exactly awash with friends. This really upsets me - my H is saying "well - it is just the same for me." But is it really? He is choosing this and I am not. In fact I am without any agency. I feel so upset and so angry ... Any comebacks when he claims it is the same for him?
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