hi everyone.
my dh had an emotional affair which lasted about 3 weeks. it was via Twitter direct messages. After I found out in early April he swore that was the end of it and we deleted what I thought were the relevant accounts.
Anyway about 2 weeks later in mid April i discovered that he was still in limited contact with her. i was totally gutted (again) and this time i sent her a message telling her that everything he had told her was a pack of lies (i know that it was as i read all their messages).
We then deleted the rest of the accounts and I think he has no more contact with her now. He says he wants to be with me, he regrets what he's done, he gives me access to his phone when i ask, i've got access to his email, everything under the sun.
but i still don't believe him!! it's driving me nuts. how can i move forward and start trusting him again?
I am so paranoid. I wonder if he could still have email accounts and twitter that I don't know about as he could quite easily access them at work and then delete the web history from his phone!
i'm going round in circles. I need to put this behind me and move on but I'm finding it so difficult.
Has anyone got any tips/advice on how to do this please?
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how do I trust him again?
enidblytonfan · 18/05/2016 20:59
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