Hello! Newbie! Sorry if this post is in the wrong place I didn't really know what I'm doing lol. I just need some outside opinions please.
So ... I'm currently in a 'friends with benefits' relationship. So basically we are strictly 'f*ck buddies' we have great sex ... He's hot as hell and we have a laugh but we've always said we wouldn't allow 'feelings' to develop. (He actually says this a lot; don't get feelings for me babe I don't wanna hurt u etc etc') however ...... The other day I called him pal and he shot me down ... Don't call me pal... Call me babe, I'm not your pal I'm more than that. They he says things like 'your mine' and we cuddle ALOT ... There's even been nights we won't even have sex anymore we literally just chill out watch films and cuddle. He's always grabbing me for hugs in the house if I walk past he just cuddles me and calls me babe and baby. Kisses my forehead strokes my hair, tickles my back etc etc ... All the things that can trigger feelings to develop. However just last night we again had the 'you haven't caught feelings?' Convo. He again said ' please don't fall in love with me' then afterwards in the night he pulled me to him for a cuddle and said come here babe your mine, this morning he's doing all the affectionate shit again.
If he sees me messaging other guys he gets all moody but then says he's not Jelous and I'm single so I can do what I like, yet he's very private with his phone and Iv seen him messaging other girls whilst he's with me and I'm not gonna lie , it cuts deep.
I'm so god damn confused!!!!!!! It was all fun and games at first but I think I might be falling and I don't know if he wants to catch me or not!! This guy means the world to me and gives me amazing advice , as well as amazing sex , he's like my best friend , I can't loose him.
Outside opinions please! I'm going mental I think! X
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Friends with benefits and feelings :(
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