House abroad ought in both our names a few years ago - we are not married. Foreign mortgage. He always paid it. I paid all rent and all bills in the UK (this meant he could pay maintenance to his ex).
In 2014 he left me for another woman after 10 years, who he moved in with shortly after and has subsequently married (in under a year of leaving me).
He is still paying and we are putting it on the market but he wants me to contribute to the ongoing mortgage and some back pay since we split.
The amount of the total mortgage (not what's left) is around half of what I have paid on the rent and bills. So in theory he already owes me more than I could ever owe him.
My dad died in horrific circumstances and I inherited some money which meant I could put a deposit down on a flat. I also took a massive pay cut to take a permanent job so I could get a mortgage (I was a freelancer and it's hard to do). His current salary is over twice mine. I live alone so don;t share mortgage bills etc with anyone. He obviously does.
Morally I can't believe he's doing this (and in a very bullying and unpleasant way). But legally, where do I stand? I don't actually care if I get any money from the house. I just want him gone.
Does he have a legal leg to stand on? Can he take me to court? Does the fact this is abroad mean he can't do anything? All thoughts both from IANAL people and actual lawyers gratefully received.
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Ex asking for money on property abroad
Lurkerlongtime123 · 13/05/2016 23:12
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