My sisters daughter (my niece) is getting married but has not invited my 3 children (14, 12, 9).
My kids love her and they get on well. My kids are on the side of some of the most well behaved and well mannered kids. She says that she doesn't want kids at the wedding, however, my kids are the only kids for consideration, none of her friends have kids. So basically she is saying that MY kids are not invited. She says that my kids can't sit still (boy is she in for a surprise) however, she expected me to take them to the actual wedding but not the reception which is in her mother in-laws back yard. She says that it is costing her a lot however, 3/4 of the costs are being taken care of by both parents. In discussions she has mentioned that my partner was invited, however the invitation does not have any name on it and the envelope only has my name. She has invited other first cousins that don't live in the same city. She has invited people that she has never met before. Other families have assumed their kids (16yo) are invited, but she has not told them NO, she has simply catered for them. I thought we had a good relationship and I have her in my will. Now that she has set me straight on what I mean to her, she will no longer be in my will. Feeling quite offended and sad for my kids as they are an extension of me... and they can't understand why they can't come, which I think is something she needs to explain to them and not me as I have no explanation.
Do I go to the wedding or not?
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chinwag06 · 13/05/2016 04:33
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