Been single for ages. Being a single mum with a VERY heavy workload at the moment, I find it really hard to meet anyone in RL so have dabbled in OLD to not much avail on and off for a couple of years.
Recently got chatting to a guy who came across well, he seemed funny, chillled, interesting etc. We started to chat more and more and I am of the opinion that it is better to meet sooner rather than later as you don't really get to know what the real person is like behind a keyboard etc and meeting up avoid heightened expectations/disappointment etc.
So we agree to meet up in a busy coffee shop. Date went OK. He was a bit on the quiet side which I put down to possible shyness. We went for a bit of stroll after our coffees as it was a glorious day. We had a little kiss at the end.
I made it explicit to him that I am really busy at the moment with work stuff and so am not in a position to meet up regularly because of my circumstances. Even have this on my profile.
Anyway, I get a message from him today asking if we could meet up again. I suggest maybe a meal sometime next week. This then transcends into him saying that he thought that 'we' are now more important then my busy workload and that it 'takes two to make things work' and that he got the impression that what it sounds like I was suggesting was more like a friendship rather than what he got the impression he thought we both wanted when we went on the website where we met. He then asked me to explain myself
I sent him a message saying that I don't need to explain myself and that we are clearly not compatible with each other. He then comes back calling me a 'stupid cold bitch' and that I'm 'cold as a dead fish'
I am quite wow about all this tbh.
I feel totally disillusioned about OLD now and tbh about ever finding a man in general. I think I might end up being on my own forever.
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IHaveHadHOWManyUsernames · 09/05/2016 23:12
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