My H (he left 7/8 months ago) owes me around £3000 for various things:
- CM arrears - before I set up a claim with CMS
- A loan I gave him at Christmas time so he could buy the DC some presents
- A few debts (that I knew nothing about until he'd gone), there was no choice in me paying them ASAP, if I didn't our TV, electricity, gas, phone, rent etc would have been compromised.
How can I get this back? I have asked him nicely, I have asked him more firmly,
CAB didn't really give much help tbh told me to talk it out with him (lol)
I have no evidence I gave him anything, or that he owes me anything. But there must be something..?
The main reason behind our split did seem to be money, and I am beginning to realise through MN that he was probably financially abusive throughout the marriage. Not giving it back is his way of still having a hold over us, isn't it?
I am meant to be receiving £13/week CM as he has somehow told them he works less than he is meant to - haven't seen a penny of this yet either.
Any advise appreciated :)