I had a thread a while ago here about an old school friend who contacted me out of nowhere after an almost 40 year absence.
Well, things moved on, we met, it was lovely. . He was lovely. We had 3 meet ups, lots of talking and a bit of a snog (on the Embankment by the Thames! Ha! Haven't done that for years) and if he lived closer I would be in there in an instant.
But now he's back across the other side of the world and I am here. Neither of us can move atm due to family commitments. TBH I don't want to move back there, I love the UK and where I live. He's not adverse to relocating and has a UK passport so could do so but would mean removing him from his children although they would all be adults by the time he does.
We email frequently and Skype every week to 10 days. I am travelling out early in 2017 to see family and so will see him then but I can't see how it can be sustained and 8/9 months is like a lifetime.
Would you keep going or should I stop contact and save us both some pain and frustration? Or I should I continue and see what happens? TBH I wasn't actively seeking a relationship when this all sprang up.
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Long distance relationships - can they be sustained until one person can relocate?
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TheClosingChapter · 03/05/2016 21:40
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