Have been with dp for 4 years, have a 2 year old ds.
I love him, i'm pretty sure that i love him, but i just don't know if we really work together.
We don't have any little jokes or anything like that. He doesn't seem to want to talk with me much really but not in a mean way just in a sort of awkward way. I suppose it seems a bit stale and forced. we'd not been together long when i got pregnant and were quite young (21 + 22) so maybe we never really did work together or maybe i am just being unrealistic with how relationships are after a while??
is this normal?
Whats got me wondering i think is, at work i was talking to a guy who also works there and he made me laugh a lot, we were working together the whole shift and he was flirting with me i think (quite obviously really, i'm not normally one to notice) and just made me feel like he actually wanted to talk to me. now i'm not going to cheat on dp and i have no interest in this guy in reality, but it was nice to feel like someone fancied me and actually wants to talk to me, he was really funny.
It got me thinking that maybe me and dp aren't right for each other, we've never had one conversation like that and i think i annoy him when i try to joke around and i just end up feeling stupid.
i don't know if he really likes me tbh, he talks to other women (not flirting, just people we know) but when it comes to talking to me it's just "mmhmm" and that's all i get out of him a lot of the time. how can you enjoy yourself with someone when they are totally uninterested.
i don't know if i'm explaining myself well at all but on one hand, i love dp and our little family and he is good to me, but on the other hand i am only 25 and i don't know if i LOVE him, love him or if we've just stuck it out because i accidentally got pregnant. i don't think we'd be together if i hadn't had had DS
Help i'm so confused and scared about all these weird confused feelings and i feel like bitch of the year.
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conusedoratwatorsomething · 03/05/2016 21:03
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