HELP- What would you do- any advice.

Gabby2014 · 2016-05-01 08:47:58

I have been married 12 years to this my second husband, I am 48, he is 61. My husband went away on business last Saturday, which isn't unusual, it was his B-day yesterday, the country he is in was a public bank holiday Friday, he lied on his itinerary saying he was working, Friday i called the hotel room at 6pm his time, something I never do, and he picked up startled it was me and said "Oh oh its you" in a kind of polished accent, It immediately put me on guard and I said are you there alone, he replied yes, so i said Please take a photograph of your bed, he slammed the phone down on me, so i called his mobile once and the hotel room once and he did not pick up. Yesterday on his birthday i texted him and said "happy birthday" no reply, so i called his mobile hours later no reply and hotel room no reply. I then sent him a sloppy text just to test him and said "my heart is broken" My husband is normally texting me 4 times a day and calling me a few times a day just for small talk, he has never ever done anything like this before, leading up to his trip he was extra nice to me, I even had a vivid dream/premonition 2 weeks ago he was having an affaire, i woke up suddenly, later that day he told me he was having a late dinner in london. So Friday because i had a gut feeling i filled for divorce. Any advice is well come.

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