I had an unsuccessful attempt at relationship counselling (by myself) a while ago. I posted about it then. I ditched it after 2 sessions.
With a bit of distance I can see some of the reasons I didn't get on with it. But the feeling that the one person I tried to be open with very clearly found me annoying has not gone - it feels like professional confirmation of being deeply flawed. And therefore have not plucked up courage to try again.
So I'm feeling a bit in limbo. My relationship and mental health are not at all good. I can't seem to get out of this. I have posted about various bits here on MN but obviously that's not really fixing anything.
I have an assessment with a mental health team (can't remember the official name) but I'm not sure how they can help as I'm massively put off engaging with strangers again. And the whole focus is now on my depression/anxiety. I'm guessing I'll be offered CBT, if anything.
If I was to try again to pay for counselling privately, what sort of counsellor am I looking for? I guess I'd want to deal with self esteem personally as well as relationship. As well as unhealthy mental health issues. Can this all be dealt with in one?
Counsellor info seems to mention the focus of their approach, eg, humanist, person centred etc. It's a bit confusing!
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Any advice please on trying again with counselling
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serialangstyposter · 20/04/2016 13:09
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