Does anyone think it would be appropriate .. or inappropriate ... for me to write a letter to my H, and ask him to show it to his counsellor, and go through it with him?
I just feel that H does not "get it" how I am feeling, about cheating.
He says he does. And he is trying to help me. But he also thinks, 7 months after its finished, I should be able to just get over it, because he has stopped, changed, and yes, we are both trying to work things out.
But crying myself to sleep, or having dreams, or waking crying, after all this time.
I told H that I now trust him, accept that it happened, but I do not forgive him.
I appreciate how he is helping me, I couldnt have got this far without his help,
I realise its going to take a long time, and will never be the same.
I just want some advice on my writing a letter, or not. I don't need advice on LTB, I have had all that,
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janaus · 20/04/2016 02:46
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