I'm looking to get your opinion on the following scenario. My husband and I have made the decision to separate and I will be keeping our home that is currently jointly owned, I will be buying him out though and giving him his share of the equity. The problem is that I was gifted £20000 a while back from one of my family members with the request that it must be paid towards our mortgage. Now that we are separating we are disagreeing on how this money should be split. My view is that we should half the equity down the middle and then take the £20000 off of his half whereas he is saying that I should take off the £20000 first and then split the difference. His suggestion effectively leaves me worse off and him benefitting from this gift whereas my suggestion means I get the full £20000 back. What do you think is fair here?
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