Long story short, today is the day that I've finally decided that DH is a shit drunk and DS(11) deserves better.
In the main DH is a fantastic guy, my best friend and the person I absolutely want to spend the rest of my days with. Today, yet again we've been embroiled in some petty dispute and I've had enough. It's no way for DS to grow up and I don't want him to grow up thinking that ours is a normal and functional relationship. All our issues can be firmly traced back to alcohol, causing DH in particular to behave in a way that simply isn't him. Logically the sensible answer is not to drink, but by next weekend the issues have faded and the cycle starts over again.
So now we're sat here with a bag packed, waiting for DH to come home (he's tramped off with a dog in great distress as I've said we're leaving)
I want him to shout and fight for us not to go, even though I know that's not his way. I'm sat here pretending to be calm and reassuring DS that everything will be fine, when in reality my heart is breaking.
We can go to my DM's, but she lives over 200 miles away. DS has school tomorrow and I have work tomorrow night. It's such a big step but one that I feel if we don't take, nothing will change.
Am I being too hasty or should we just bite the bullet and go, then see where it leads us?
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I'm about to walk out, am I being too hasty?
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MagentaSpunkTrumpet · 17/04/2016 20:22
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