I don't know if I'm making too much of an issue that has recently arisen - and wondered if I could get some advice on how to handle it? My DP had always had various hobbies & projects on the go - often they become all encompassing & he will throw time (& money!) at it until it dies a death & we never hear about them again.
This has caused a few arguments in the past but generally it is forgotten & we move on. This is mainly as he is the main wage earner & I feel that it's his money & he's doing something he enjoys. Sometimes though I would like to be included, perhaps to do something together but it's usually not to be.
This time however, something has changed & I am not so tolerant. Perhaps it was the way it was presented to me - as a done deal - or that fact that after discussion he went ahead & did it anyway ( lying when asked about it, then not telling me about it) - his argument when challenged was that he deserved it, had the money & was going to do it anyway. He is still not telling me anything about it even when I asked for him to be upfront.
Something has broken this time though, I feel that he doesn't respect me or even like me & I am reacting to this. It's just the causal "I want, I get" attitude & that my say doesn't matter. I feel like leaving - which is silly as he is a good man in all other aspects. I feel like he needs to grow up & not act like a single man...
How do I make peace with it?
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Am I over reacting?
CodLiverOiled · 17/04/2016 12:56
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