First time I've started a thread, please be gentle on me... Hoping someone can talk me down or stop me from going ape.
I've just received a text from DH saying "Not now but I'm still not sure how much I love you." I don't know if it's a complete mistake or if it was meant for someone else.
I need to put a bit of context. He's out with DD, she has just been playing on his iPad and sending me pictures from his iMessage account, which of course makes a continual thread of conversation with whatever texts he sends me from his iPhone too.
Just before I received the message, I got another one along the lines of 'just at work, 5 minutes...' He's not at work just now so that's a wee bit odd too.
Theory 1 - DD is copying and pasting content from other messages she's accessing on the iPad, without really registering what she's doing or
Theory 2 - DH is messaging someone from his iPhone and for some reason, perhaps because DD is on iMessage too, he's accidentally sending them to me.
Theory 3 - DD is composing and sending 100% random messages.
Either way - I have never received a message from DH saying either of the two things in the iMessages I've just received. So it wouldn't be that DD is simply copying and pasting any previous dialogue with me.
DH has not been full-blown unfaithful in the past AFAIK but there has been other activity enough to make me not feel I can trust him at this moment.
Hope I have explained this clearly enough. What would you do - challenge him on the text, try to sneak his device off for a nosy or calm the f* down and stop being so suspicious?
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"Not now but I'm still not sure how much I love you"
FireandBrimstone · 16/04/2016 16:35
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