This is probably going to sound strange but not sure why this is happening.
I've NC'd for this.
I'm married and been with my partner for 7 years, I'm in my mid twenties.
I have no problem of thinking about sex in a general sense but I feel weird about it with someone I care about re: partner.
I guess I feel like it should be dirty or not completely enjoyed.
How could I change my view on this? I'm aware it's not healthy.
Just as not to drip feed I was in a semi-abusive relationship beforehand (about 9 months before we got together).
I've also been touched without permission but by those my age or just a few years older.
Any advice how to work out how to be normal would be great.
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ItsNotTheBestOfFeelings · 12/04/2016 20:35
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