Back history; DH got caught sexually harassing a work colleague and got sacked. They had an emotional there for six months but then she wanted to end it he didn't and carried on sexually harassing her. He pinned her against a wall and forced her to kiss him and other inappropriate behaviours.
Throughout his disciplinary he was not honest with me once and I couldn't handle not only the details but the constant lies to try and cover this up. We have 2 dcs and I have a DD from a previous relationship. They are handling this well as am I. I put my big girl socks on pulled them up and cracked on. I took the lease on the house, dropped a day at work, sorted childcare and my finances are all sorted. As much as it hurts I'm strong and will be for our kids.
What I am struggling with is the constant messages, not about our kids but all about how I'm throwing this away. I'm been silly. He loves me. He's sorry. He would never lie again blah blah et cetera et cetera et cetera! It's driving me nuts! I either ignore him or text 'leave me alone and concentrate on your kids' I do not get drawn in to a conversation about us as I'm not ever going back! I've told him this with conviction but it doesn't stop! He's has them for tea tonight for 2 hours and I have 6 messages from him all about how he wants me back! I told him to put his phone down and play with the kids!
How long will this last?
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minop · 08/04/2016 18:50
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