I have been struggling with how lonely I am in my marriage for some time but tonight really clarified how little I must mean to my husband. I mentioned I wouldn't eat as I was feeling unwell. His response was "I could have had something else instead of soup then, you shouldn't have opened it" said in an annoyed voice. It sounds silly, but I am just reeling at his lack of care. I have been keeping a mental record of any time he starts a conversation, asks me a question about my life, looks me in the eye, responds with more than a yes no answer to my questions (in the last two weeks not once). I'm not sure what to do but this is bleak isn't it? Has anyone else experienced total indifference in their marriage? How did you address it?
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