I have a lovely new bf. He's loving, attentive, he actually listens to what I say, nothing's too much trouble etc. He's introduced me to his family & friends & he's involved me in all his hobbies/activities etc to show me what his life's all about. Yet I have this niggling doubt it's all only to get me into bed That as long as I satisfy his sexual needs I'm included in everything else. I don't know where I get this idea from as he's not shown a single red flag yet. I was severely abused in childhood and had a long abusive marriage which ended a year ago. Somehow I find it hard to get my head round that his considerate behaviour might be real & sincere. How do you know? (We've been together 6 months)
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How do you know it's not all (the attention) just to get sex?
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Kelloggs39 · 07/04/2016 20:11
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