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2nd Date Tonight

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Datingbarb · 07/04/2016 18:57

So off ona second date, 1st was a month ago, I wasn't sure, life commitments etc but we have stayed in contact and we get on well and I'm looking forward to seeing him again.

First date was nice, no issues, awkwardness, red flags etc in fact he seems perfect in every way I just didn't feel immediate connection though I really liked him as a person.

So after the second date should I feel more of a spark? If not shall I just knock it on the head and think great bloke just not for me?

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ImperialBlether · 07/04/2016 18:58

If he's really nice I'd give it a bit longer. Not all relationships start with fireworks; it doesn't mean you won't have them later.

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dodobedoop · 07/04/2016 20:12

Ah yes, I'd give it a little longer than a second date. I always think the first time you meet someone is just that, a meet, rather than an actual date.

The first time I met current chap, we were both so nervous, came away not knowing what each thought of the other. And here we are almost 3 months later, going strong!

See how tonight goes. Good luck! Smile

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Lacoba66 · 07/04/2016 20:18

Goodluck OP smile. As others have said, some people grow on you and the fact that you're going for a 2nd date says something??

Enjoy, relax and remember it's all a learning curve.

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Datingbarb · 07/04/2016 23:54

Well back, went well we laughed and chatted, has a kiss and already got date 3 booked in for Saturday!

I def liked him more, so let's see how number 3 goes

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dodobedoop · 08/04/2016 07:04

Yay!! Glad it went well. Have fun tomorrow Smile

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