I have posted a number of times before and though things tend to improve, and are certainly better than they were, my oh's low moods and anger are still a problem that I am not prepared to put up with me, for me or our DC.
I believe he has MH problems-depression, anxiety, maybe OCD-and want him for once and for all to get proper help and not stop getting help until things have changed for the better.
I don't want to barrage him with a long list of criticism but I do plan to sit down tonight and point out my side and let him know he has a week to see his GP and if not I want to separate. I am hoping he will do the right thing and it won't come to that because I believe he is a good man but I cannot put up with the cloud over the house a lot of the time. There is sighing, swearing under his breath, door slamming, things being thrown/banged around when tidying instead of just put away. He is very highly strung. There is shouting at times. He seems properly miserable in himself and it feels like he finds it physically impossible to open his mouth and say how he feels, even 're the smallest thing, so he tends to be PA which drives me bananas. He has no interest in going out though he does take the dc to playgrounds etc. I have been civil but am fed up of being the one to start the conversation every time so this is my last ditch effort to make him see it can't go on.
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Help me script my ultimatum please
mikado1 · 02/04/2016 14:08
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