It is kind of a long story but in short, it was a surprise pregnancy - failed pill, he didn't want the baby so I was getting ready to leave, he changed his mind and i stayed so now she is a month old. He seems to love her but looks unhappy.
We went to register the birth and at the door he told me he wasn't coming in and drove away so I went and registered her alone in tears. I wanted to give her my last name which could have been part of the problem.
we had such a brilliant relationship and it's been difficult but I was hoping we would get it back at some point in the future.
I'm flat hunting again but I don't feel like the ideal tenant on mat leave and looking into housing benefit.
I should leave shouldn't I? Has this happened to anyone else ever? He was always so lovely and we had a good time together. But I feel like I'll alway have that moment when he just left me to so that on my own and have to leave he father section blank after four years together.
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Partner of four years refused to go on birth certificate.
FrizzyNoodles · 25/03/2016 11:56
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