I fret. I imagine all sorts.
When, if you can recall, did your appearance click with you?
I dunno, I used to think I was passable enough (up until 15 years ago when I met now ex DH)
Now I'm 40 and struggling to like myself. I'm am permanently disappointed when I look in the mirror.
Our marriage was highly stressful and we were/are ridiculously incompatible.
He stopped having sex early into our marriage telling me I'd let myself go ; then decided it was because he resented losing is freedom.
In a lot of ways he was and is pretty passive aggressive and cruel. I've been told I'm too soft and conscientious for my own good by others. Match made in hell!!
I'm trying to establish new boundaries in the wake of the failure of my marriage. I know beauty is only skin deep however I feel I look so horrendous and fat; that I'll never be loved.
I've lost weight and am wearing more make- up but still think I look like a man.
It's breaking my heart.
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InstinctivelyITry · 23/03/2016 14:06
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