If you knew your H was lying to you about something he was supposed to have stopped doing how would you confront him if you don't have any hard proof.
Alternatively if you knew he was lying and you kept asking him to tell the truth but he didn't, do you put up and shut up or ask to spilt?
I think we are at the very point of splitting. And ideally I want to know the truth. Yet I know from reading threads on this board for the last 15 years that I'm unlikely to find that out.
He's supposed to have stopped messaging a girl on FB but I know he is still in contact with her. Now if it was as innocent as he claims it was when I first found out, why continue to lie about being in touch with her now.
That's the stumbling block for me right there.
Does anyone think he just wants something that can be just for him and for me not be part of it or does that sound like I've got my head in the clouds?
I wanted to make our marriage work and I really thought we could but now it just seems like the lies he's told are too much. I want to rant and shout at him but don't want to upset the DC so I'm trying to be calm and sensible about my options, if I have any.
Thanks to anyone who could take time to offer advice. It will be greatly appreciated.
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JellyJulie · 23/03/2016 05:14
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