I'm getting to the point where I'm starting to really dislike dh. We've been together 10 years and have two dc. When they were little he was main earner, I did a low paid job but it meant I could and would take kids with me even if he was on days off as his Job was "more stressful" and he brought more money in. There have been periods of what I think is emotional abuse. Saying I was lazy, I contributed nothing to the home (financially). He shouts a lot too, has broken stuff in a rage, throws my stuff about.
Fast forward few years I'm now in a well paid job, contribute more financially (share finances) but work long hours. He has had to step up and take kids to school, pick them up. He works late shifts so can do this but still makes out he's so hard done to. He has also called me horrid things in front of the dc, said I'm lazy, a scruff, he hates living in the house. I've confronted him he apologises said he's just tired but after all these years and now I'm standing up for myself I realise I am starting to dislike him a lot. He would like more Sex, I'm not interested at all. When he tries to initiate I want to cry, he never forces me but does get the hump about it. However since my last promotion and therefore parish he has started to get a lot better.
So...It's dds 9th bday today. He barely managed to open his eyes when she opened her presents on our bed, couldn't even get up to have breakfast with her before school and he's still in bed now. He's off for few days, so can't be tired form worm. Why can't he just get his arse out of bed, for not even 2 hours to have breakfast and wave her off??
I have seriously started to consider to walk away but feel like it's all over petty things and most of the reasons I want to leave is because of past behaviour. I don't know ow what to do.
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I want to leave but think I'm being unreasonable.
hellokittehhhh · 21/03/2016 10:38
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