Hello guys, this could be long and a bit of a rant!
So the problem is my mum and brother, i would like to say grom the offset that i do get on with my mum and i do have a laugh with her, but my problem is with my brother to a point where i dislike him and have no time for him, when he tries to talk to me i will just cut him dead!
To be honest i havent really ever got on well with my brother but recently it has got worse to a point of wanting to hurt him, we had a big punch up a few years ago after he pulled a big knife on me and put it to my throat so i lashed out, he also done this to my older brother aswell!
My mum has always tried to molly coddle me and my borther, my brother has let her do this but i just pulled away because i can stand on my own 2 feet, she does everything for him, constantly bailing him out with money, he doesnt work but late last year he decided to get a second phone on contract because he didnt like his old phone, guess who pays for these, same with driving lessons, i paid for all my driving lessons even tho at the time i was earning £120 a week and paying £40 for lessons, when my brother was learning he was on double me and didnt pay a penny!
Since then he has lost his job, then 5 months ago,he decided to bring his new girlfriend home, who was 6 months pregnant and not with his baby, she basicaly moved into my mum and dads home and only recently moved out but still stays there 4 nights a week, she is a lovely girl and through no fault of her own she has no family and not many friends and had fuck all for the baby, i dread to think how much me, mum and partner have paid out for her, buying everything, my brother on the other hand has paid fuck all! But theres no way we was gonna let a baby go without, on top of this my brother still finds the money to go out drinking and taking drugs!
My missus reckons my brother suffers with sort of mental health problem!
The nail in the coffin this week was, my partner cooked me breakfast, she would of cooked my brother and partber some but they was in bed, well they text my mum, my mum came in half way through her shift shouting the odds, saying why the fuck we didnt cook them any, she even brought them some food back even tho theres shit loads of food in the house!
Tobaco is another one, we just got back off a holiday and have loads of bacci, its personel use for me and her, mum went mental that i wouldnt give my brother some, why should i give the cunt some bacci when i brought that with my hard earned money!
Theres loads more examples but to many to list!
Sorry for a long post but im just getting so frustrated!
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Fed up with my brother and mum
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Lethimbloodygrowup · 14/03/2016 14:59
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