I posted disastrously in AIBU a few weeks back thinking I was totally justified in feeling pissed off with dh's family for not supporting his recovery around drink and drugs. I got wasted whilst posting which completely fucked the point I was trying to make and I got rightly flamed for it.
I've looked at stuff like enabling and codependance since then and do recognise myself in these. I don't want to be these things and secretly do feel really angry at DH but can't express this outright. I literally cannot argue. I'm so sure I'm in the wrong and so scared of confrontation I don't know how ill ever confront him head on. I want to do this to move on and keep what is really a good relationship alive.
If anyone read the previous post, things are still good but delicate in terms of recovery.
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How do you argue or 'put forward an alternative point of view' when you're scared of confrontation
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YoJesse · 11/03/2016 22:41
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