Hi all, this is a very trivial one.
I have a dp who I have been with for 3 years, get on well with her family - her Sister can be a bit of a wind up.
Anyway, have been feeling down lately, came off anti depressants (which I was taking for anxiety rather than depression, Citalopram 20mg) I didn't come off them properly, just pretty much stopped taking them and recently I have been emotional and angry. Sometimes sensitive.
Anyway, I recently discovered that someone had bashed in the drivers side door of mt carm, a massive dent and scratches. Its an old car but its my first car and I have only been driving since June last year. I have had a few bumps in it but this one is a mystery.
So (as you do) I had a mini rant on Facebook saying how disappointed i felt that someone can do this and not have the decency to leave a note (naive?).
DP'S sister commented something like I was probably lying and I am a shit driver and probably bumped into someone and too scared to admit it. I replied saying that wasnt the case. Then she announced about the time I had left my handbreak up (it had broken) and it rolled across a busy street. I accept this happened and it was bad - luckily no one and nothing was hurt or damaged. Then "friends" replied to her comments with "lmao" etc. Basically everytime I post something on FB - particularly about driving, I get some snotty or rude response and last night I just thought - fuck it. I dont need FB in my life so I deactivated it.
Now this morning (DP works nights) DP has said that her sister is upset because she thinks I have blocked her on Facebook and that I need to text her to explain I have just deleted Facebook and not her. I said that I am not obliged to do this and I can delete social media sites as and when I want without having to explain!
Am I right? Should I stick to my guns and not text the Sister or message her to explain?
It annoys me that I was trying to make a point that I am not putting up with the shitty comments anymore and by doing so, I've now got to apologise to HER!?
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Facebook silliness. Who is right?
NotGonnaAnswerThePhone · 10/03/2016 12:21
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