My Mum is well into her 80s, lives alone, is independent, still drives, is very kind but I still manage to get hugely irked by her. she doesn't do anything major, just annoying wee things that only seem to annoy me and then I feel really guilty about it.
Today for example, she phones just as kids have come in from school - to ask if the kids had watched a to programme about cats that she'd mentioned on the phone the day before. This is the most important thing in her world and she has to ask right at this moment in time when I'm trying to sort out a snack, get kids doing there homework before a music lesson and get the dinner on. So when I clearly don't have a lot of time to spend discussing cat programme, which they hadn't watched incidentally she then says ok "I'm sorry for being such a bad Mum" and I feel even more guilty.
What is going on here? Am I justifiably pissed off coz she phones me at an awkward time (which she should realise by now) to ask a question that could wait until I make my weekly visit to take her out for the day?
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voluptuagoodshag · 07/03/2016 23:18
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