Hello. I'm feeling a bit sick and I wondered if you lot could talk some sense to me.
I'm going to court Wednesday for a NMO against my ex, father of my two dc's. Very very long story, but he hasn't seen them for 18 months, lives close by. Has resorted to following us in his car whilst we were on foot, having a massive go at me in front of my (crying) dc, driving his car at me (albeit slowly) in front of them. Long police saga (they are rubbish and I have complained to the IPCC) as he's also thieved off me via my bank account (this has now stopped), and police have so far done nothing.
So now here we are, because of his actions on the road, and police uselessness, I am forced to go to court to keep him away.
I simply cannot ever have the DC put through stuff like that again. They are so happy and secure, and he is threatening that. He's not interested in them, just interested in playing the victim, and resentful of me.
The stupid thing is, I'm a solicitor, though I don't do family law. I am feeling so sick at the thought of going, it's ridiculous. My family law colleague is coming with me and doing it for me. Why am I so worried? Everyone says I'll get the order.
I guess I need a bit of hand holding. I'm the 'strong one' and everyone thinks I'm always ok ho ho.
I'm not even 100% sure what'll happen. Dreading it. Has anyone any experience of the first hearing? I know it'll be a directions hearing, but that's about it.
Thanks.
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PeppermintPasty · 07/03/2016 11:46
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