I have recently decided to give my relationship with DS dad another go, though I think I'm making a big mistake- again.
I haven't spent time with DS dad for the past weeks now, due to studying, both being very busy. So today DS dad asked me if I could spend time with him today. I declined, simply because I have been so tired this week. DS new school is far away, which is very exhausting. I've been studying and been going to sleep around 3-4am everyday as my work deadlines are becoming intense since we are nearing the end of the term. I just wanted to spend the weekend relaxing and not bother dressing up and going out. Also, the fact that no one can look after DS!
DS dad got into a strop and said that he has been missing me and wanted to go out today. I suggested that I can see him on Monday as there's no one to look after DS, but he said no as his very busy with his course. I then said that I can come today but I would like DS to come with us, He said no that I should get my sister to look after DS. I told him that I can't just do that! And besides that if he helped out more with DS! Like do the school run etc etc then maybe I wouldn't be so tired. He then said that this relationship is a joke and that he will find a new girlfriend, I was like and then he hanged up.
Am I being the douche bag in this?
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Am I being the idiot in this "relationship".
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Notgivingin789 · 05/03/2016 18:08
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