I like to think of myself as pretty easy going and tolerant but i have a work colleague who just seems to be deliberately rude to me and never apologises or takes responsibility for her own actions.
She's not like this with everyone (and she can at times be lovely) but she behaves like this with several people, some of whom have completely stopped talking to her, others moan about her behind her back but don't seem to want to lose her friendship. I tend to take a deep breath, bite my tongue and think of a polite way to deal with the situation. However, I've reached the point where I really want to point out how her actions affect other people. Should i just accept that we are very different in personality and try and maintain some zen like personna around her, or by not saying what i think am I encouraging her to carry on being rude to me?
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susiesuesue · 03/03/2016 18:13
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