My ex wants nothing to do with our baby, it's a long backstory but the short version is that he's a cheater, we split he said I should get rid of baby, I haven't, he said he will tell everyone baby isn't his and deny a dna teSt/ refuse to pay csa.
I have been asked a few times if babies dad is excited etc and I've said were no longer together but he wants me to tell people he's not the father so his teenage children and family don't find out. Do I just be honest anyway and be safe in the knowledge that his children finding out is not my problem ( tbh it will be obvious he's dad when baby is born and people know we were together) or do I do what he says and lie to protect his other kids??
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Do I be honest about baby's dad??
Mummystar123 · 02/03/2016 11:19
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