I have just been ghosted by someone who I was going on a 3rd date with. Loads of communication for weeks, got on well, he asked for each date. Then boom, nothing.
Third time it's happened to me in my dating forays (only been dating since December after leaving physically abusive marriage 18 months ago).
So, on the grand scale of things ghosting hasn't upset/hurt me because I've dealt with way worse stuff from men BUT it does confuse me. I'm the kind of person who, even if I'm not feeling it has to be honest and tell the person. I can't just cut them off, it seems so...rude.
Is this a normal way to exit nowadays? I was with my ex for 10 years before this and as I'm in my mid thirties never done the dating thing before, this ghosting business is proper weird?!
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Ghosting. Happened to you? Or done it yourself?
Shameandregret · 28/02/2016 09:21
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