My dp has let me down so badly tonight. I am a lone parent to a school age child. Been with my dp 3.5 years. we do not live together due to my partners fear of commitment,
I have given everything recently in terms of spending a lot of time with dps family on a holiday
Tonight we were supposed to be at a mutual friends birthday. I am long term unwell so couldn't go so dp agreed to stay with me tonight, my dd is at her grandparents
During the course of today dd has become very unwell and grandparents are talking about taking her to emergency doctor tonight.
My dp decided last min to cancel on me, citing the birthday party more important than a romantic meal (bought and in the car on the way to mine) due to having family issues.
I am now home alone so worried about my dd---have offered to drive to grndparents but it is 4 hours away and they have said not until the morning despite taking her to the doctor tonight.
I just can't understand how my dp (childless) can leave me alone and in tears so dp can party at a friends party who has been my friend for twice the length he has known dp.
I understand dp has had a difficult day with their parents mental health issues but I feel totally let down as a partner on one level and to now find out dd is quite sick I cant understand why dp is not here supporting me.
am I selfish to want dp here even though I know dp has had a difficult day? I don't know what to do. want to ring dp and scream, I want to be with my dd, I don't know what to do
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Inneedofadvice553 · 20/02/2016 19:48
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