I have been invited on a hen party weekend for a relatively new friend of mine, including an overnight stay, the total will cost about £200.
I asked DH if this was okay (more out of courtesy than genuinely needing his approval) and he thinks I should only go to the main activity and not the overnight stay, which cuts it down to less than half that amount.
I really want to go on the overnight stay as I don't have a lot of friends and I really think this will bring me closer to my new friend. I also think I deserve the one night break!
DH said he thinks it's selfish of me to go.
I can't believe we even had an argument about it because we have plenty of money to afford this kind of thing. We have about £700 spare each month which we overpay our mortgage with. So I could literally afford this trip three times over each month and still have £100 left to overpay our mortgage with each time.
Why should I enjoy my life less just to keep squirreling every last drop of disposable income into our mortgage? Of course I want to get it paid off as early as possible but this shouldn't mean we don't get to spend money to enjoy nice things.
If it makes a difference, I work part time and he works full time so his income is double mine. But our finances are joint. And he has been known to make the occasional large purchase too!
How can I knock some sense into him and show him how stupid it is to be arguing about money when we're far from broke?
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Argument about money... Who's right?
SnozzberryWibble · 20/02/2016 10:13
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