So the big thing is that DH and I never have sex. Like once a year. Not my choice. It's a massive problem but I haven't had brain space for it as life has been a bit of a struggle with moving countries, small kids and MH problems (mine, mostly resolved now - I had depression and anxiety problems).
I've brushed it under the carpet, but I think it's bubbling out. I'm constantly furious and resentful with him. I feel like I do more that my share with the kids / house.
We've set a rule this DS is not allowed iPad time during the week as he's always grumpy and unengaged with the rest of there family when he has it. Following the rule is hard, but there has been a massive change in DS' behaviour since we started doing it.
Except whenever DH is in charge, he just hands over the iPad (even though we both agreed not to do this) and then DS invariably has a massive meltdown. Which he did tonight.
And he fucking drank the glass of wine that I was saving till after the kids went to bed, meaning that he's had most of a bottle. I specifically told him I was saving it. It's been a stressful day and I was hoping we could sit down and have dinner and a nice chat and unwind.
Do I sound like a loon? I'm conscious that there are people on here with real problems - I'm just so fucking fed up.
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Just really angry - total overreaction??
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Newname36 · 09/02/2016 20:10
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