My friend is very slutty. She's a great friend but aside from that she dresses like an absolute slut. Always has massive push up bras on and cleavage out, legs out. The lot if she can get awag with it.
my first bf complimented her profile pic (on msn) of her in bra and knickers only way back and I guess it's never left me.
I've never really felt that my DP who I have a 1yo with and another on the way has done anything to add to this paranoia but today I went on his fb on my phone. I wanted to see if his colleague had messaged him. Long story but his phone was off on his break and I always worry he's had an accident cycling to work and once when he called in sick his colleague had messaged him checking the same. So I thought I might find a message today. Putting that irrelevant piece of information aside I went onto his search button and it brings up people he has searched.
completely innocent but last week on the same day he searched my friend and then myself.
It's brought all this insecurity back and I can't helo but wonder why he searched her. She has a lot of bikini pics. No underwear ones anymore! But still lots of bikini pics and pics of her with her boobs or bum half out.
part of me thinks it can't be anything seedy as that's just ridiculous and surely he'd perv on women on google if that's what he was into. I mean she's got a good bod but nothing spectacular and if anything I think the attention she gets is purely based on her choice or lack of clothing.
but there is still that side of me that thinks he was looking at her to have a perv...
what do you think?
oh and a couple of days before that he searched some random girls name. No profile came up so I'm guessing he couldn't find who he was looking for but I'm still mystified. He works in an all male job. Comes home straight from work. And we're always together at weekends - were always been the types who prefer to chill indoors or eat out. Even more so since LO arrived. So I can't see it being someone he's met....
sorry for typos if any.
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just me being insecure or more to it?
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justonesherryformedicinalpurpo · 09/02/2016 13:16
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Costacoffeeplease ·
09/02/2016 14:04
Slut, slutty, really? 
and this is your friend you're talking about?
Iwonderif ·
09/02/2016 15:03
It's your pregnancy hormones OP....they are horrendous at times. Caused me a great deal of insecurities. Being PG takes it out of us it really does. 
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