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Obsessed?

(2 Posts)
missb10 Mon 08-Feb-16 23:40:27

I feel like I'm going mad recently. For several months I've secretly been in love with somebody. He has been in an on-off relationship with another woman and that is why I haven't said anything to him. I know when I am likely to see him, but often either avoid going or sit with other people, even spending my time talking to other men when I really want to talk to him. What is wrong with me? I'm a grown woman, not a young thing! When we're apart, I think about him most of the time and when he is around I feel happy, but really disappointed when he doesn't show up when I think he might.

cantmakeme Mon 08-Feb-16 23:46:38

Maybe just ask him out? I know it sounds a bit too simple, but really... You might as well go for it, if there's an attraction and he's not in a relationship. There is an attraction between you, I presume? It's not one way?

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