NC for this. I have been in a relationship for 10 years and I've always been loyal. Ours has been a happy and stable relationship, although we've had hiccups like everyone does. A few days ago a man I've always been weak with got in touch. I ended my relationship with this OM, if you can call it that, over 13 years ago and haven't seen him since. It started off innocent enough but the escalated into territory I would consider as practically cheating on my DP. I have no idea how it went as far as it did. It was all hypothetical but I ended up saying things I shouldn't have and admitted to things I shouldn't have and now I feel guilt ridden. I have no intention of meeting up with this OM and told him I wouldn't because I love my DP but I know I've overstepped the line. I'm blocking the OM from contact. I didn't sleep last night as I tried to work out, do I tell my DP what I've done. I know he'll be furious. I'm furious with me. I'm so angry with myself for letting it go so far to the point I feel sick. Should I tell him and hurt him when I'm ending all contact with the OM?
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