A long story, sorry in advance!!
I been living with my sister and niece for just over a year, I love my niece but i hate the way she is always being rude to everyone, thinking its ok to hit,punch,pull hair and even kick me full blown in the stomach im 37 weeks pregnant, also if there is another child present and my niece gets told off she will hurt the other child, she refuses to go to bed and will have a tantrum all through out the night and during the day most of the time we,r lucky if we get any sleep. she gets what she wants when she wants and how she wants, the thing is deep down it isnt her fault she is only 4 years old my sister is always on her laptop she doesnt do alot around the house, she cooks for my niece and gives her all the food she needs.
but my niece lacks attention my sister is always telling my niece to f*ck off leave me alone go watch telle like a normal child would, my niece is always watching telle, my sister has a lock on her inside bedroom door so my niece cant go in there at night but she is always screeeming for her mum to wake up the next day and my sister complains about it!! the thing is i would give my niece all the attention she needs but my sister would get jelouse she has done in the pass told me to back off she isnt my child. that being said my sister does nothing for her they dont go out they stay in all day watching telle all day cant be good fpr a 4 year old. she gets no attention from her mother or infact anyone if my niece is naughty my sister expects everyone else to tell her off.
living here is a nightmare not just for me but for my niece i really do feel her pain being pushed away like that and she stood there asking why isnt mummy giving me a cuddle or why doesnt mummy take me out. the answer she gets ur always naughty u dont deserve good things.
i also told her that my niece will grow up hating her if she doesnt do anything to change the way she is now!! but im in the wrong and i dont know how to raise a child.
I dont know what todo now
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misslopez · 07/02/2016 17:34
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