I was a bit unreasonable but I'm handing this over to the MN jury.
I've been friends with my BF for 20 years. There are lots of lovely things about him but sometimes I feel I'm in a controlling relationship!.
Back a few months ago he told me he thought my world is a bit small and there are lots of things he'd like to do with me that I say no to. This is true. There are lots of things he's suggested that I have no interest in but we see each other at least once a week anyway.
I was upset at the time but then thought maybe I should be more open minded and spontaneous so this year I've made an effort to say yes to more invitations.
We had dinner on Monday and he asked me to see a film today with him and his partner. I had no interest in seeing the film but he said his partner really wanted to see it and really wanted me to come so I agreed.
Today we went for brunch in the venue he wanted at the time he wanted even though I told him it would be difficult for me to get there at that time.
When we walked into the cinema his partner said 'I hope you enjoy the film because I'm not a fan'. Turned out friend had told me and his partner that the other really wanted to go and wanted the other to come.
I felt really pissed off at being manipulated but didn't want to cause a scene so went into the film. Friend fell asleep straight away and after 30 mins watching a shit film with him asleep I couldn't be arsed to watch the rest so woke him up and said I was leaving. I wasn't angry and I gave him a kiss and quietly left.
I sent a text after apologising for being rude but said I was bored and he was asleep so I wanted to leave.
He's now ignoring my texts and calls and I feel that yes I was rude but not as rude as him!.
Who's U here?.
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maketheworldgoaway · 07/02/2016 14:49
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